I’ve only opened this thread, because I know I’m not supposed to comment on other’s Den posts.
I feel it would be beneficial to point out “grooming” & “pedophilia” are not at all the same. Grooming a child entails raising them as you want them to be, teachers & parents both do that, whereas pedophilia is a sick perversion.
I have seen instances wherein a user accuses a groomer to be a pedophile. However, pedophilia is more often introduced by a user taking issue with a user who introduced grooming. Ironically, it’s typically introduced by a user launching a personal attack accusing another user of having a fantasy.
No need to reply, I’m simply sharing my opinion.
Cheers!